Shortest dating period before marriage
Perhaps ill-matched couples use giant diamonds or flashy weddings to cover up the cracks in their emotional foundations.Or maybe couples that have modest rings and receptions feel that their boundless love is a celebration enough.This gives you plenty of time to get to know each other to secure the foundation and the friendship."Speaking of which, there are social benefits to a long engagement as well, according to Emma: "It feels a bit like having it both ways— avoiding the sterotypes that come with being single and the ones that come with being married." This brings us to the elephant in the room among couples putting off marriage: The dreaded FOMO.
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Now he's talking about asking her to marry him and he says she's on the same page despite only knowing each other for less than a month. My ex-best friend of 4 years recently got engaged...after dating the girl for a month. Last I heard her mother is making them wait to get married in April (they were planning on eloping this past weekend--it would be 2 months at that point). Hopefully those two can cool their jets for a few months and really decide if they want to rush into marriage without even knowing one another. What do you all think about people who get engaged/married after only dating for a very short period of time?
These two are NOT kids, both in their late forties, early fifties. I know this used to be fairly common, even engagements were kept very short.
Dan says: "Both Emma and I wanted me to be significantly closer to finishing my dissertation by the time of the wedding: having prospective employment is a good thing." They're also set on one particular venue, which rarely rents out for events.
While they admit that tradional family members on both sides are perplexed by their wait time, Rachel Sussman, New York City-based therapist and relationship expert, is on their side: "It's good for couples to know each other for at least a year to two years before they get married.